Through real-time inquiries during real moments of real life, FIML reveals the palette and tools of the artist, as they are being used.
As the receiver of a FIML inquiry, you are asked to reflect on the moments just passing.
Your answer provides a lot of information to both you and your partner.
Your partner also has information and insights into what their mind was doing.
These shared insights are the details of your psychologies as they are actually functioning in a real situation.
It is transformative to see these details often.
To do this, I think you have to use a “game” like FIML because FIML has no presuppositions. FIML does not ask you to believe anything; just do the method.