And distorted motives warp human interactions, which in turn degrade individual psychology.
There is no way around it—the ways almost all people communicate are much cruder than their brains are capable of.
And that is the cause of most of what we now call (non-biological) “mental health” problems.
Here is an example: I want to say something very complex to my primary care doctor. I can give her the gist in a minute or two but I do not want to have that go on my medical record.
So I ask her if I can start a discussion that she will promise to keep off my record.
She says, “I’ll think about it.”
A week later I get a letter from her nurse saying she is not willing to do what I asked.
No reason why was given. Do rules prevent her from doing that? I have heard of doctors allowing patients to keep some concerns off the record, but who knows what the reality is? Do you?
If I insist, will that go on my record? Did what I asked in the first place go on my record? My doctor is trapped within or is voluntarily following some guideline that is most decidedly not in my best interests.
This same sort of thing can happen interpersonally. If I raise a topic that is psychologically important to me with even a close friend, I have to wonder will they understand? Will they allow me to expand the subject over a few weeks or months or longer? Will my initial statements change our friendship?
The basic problem is how do you discuss complex psychological subjects with others?
One of my friends works in alternative health care. She knows what I want to bring up with my doctor and admits that even in her professional setting where patients have an hour to open up, there is not enough time.
Back to my primary care doctor. I saw her again a year later and she asked if I remembered her. I said, “Of course I remember you.” She said no more and neither of us raised the off-the-record topic. An intern was with her.
I wonder what she thinks of me. Did she interpret my slightly nervous behavior when I first asked as a “sign” of something? Does she think I am volatile or bipolar or just nuts? (I am not.)
I am 100% sure that she cannot possibly know what I wanted to bring up with her. In this case, I have all of the information and I want to give it to her but she cannot or will not allow that unless my initial fumblings toward a complex subject are made public.
Even a close friend could find themselves in a similar position. And I wonder if I have done that myself to someone. Most people most of the time are not able to scale those walls that divide us.
On either side of the wall is a complex person capable of complex understanding, but one or both persons cannot scale the wall. My doctor is smart enough to have become an MD and yet I cannot tell her about a complex medical condition that is of great importance to me.
I know that I do not want to open the subject and risk a shallow public label (a common hindrance to many potential communications). I honestly do not know what my doctor is thinking. Maybe I will try again the next time I see her.
One year later: I didn’t try again. After much thought, I decided to switch doctors. And I will not bring this subject up with my new doctor. It’s a sad reality that trying at all ruined (in my mind) my relationship with my first doctor and convinced me that the topic is not one I can discuss with any medical professional in a professional setting and maybe in any setting.
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UPDATE: I first posted the above a few years ago. The world has changed. What I wanted to discuss with my doctor is the attacks I have suffered at the hands of Jewish Supremists. ABN.
Part Two reportedly has a couple of AI images, so the entire vid is banned in some countries. I have no way to assess this series and do not know who the speaker is, but information provided is interesting and seems well thought out. ABN
If true, and it probably is, this video describes a doozy. The most dangerous elite gang in USA and the West is Jewish Supremists. They are trained to lie and cheat and will stop at nothing to grow their power. Many today can see the general outline of their savagery, but few know about the covert violence they do against young people they identify as potential rivals. The violence is a covert military strategy, a sort of silent terrorism designed to destroy individuals and the communities they belong to. It is directed especially against boys and young men. Any JS who is envious of any non-Jew can place them on their JS destroy list to be poisoned, lobotomized, or otherwise maimed and disabled. It does not matter to them if the person they attack is innocent because by striking down promising young people, entire communities are demoralized. The more they do that, the more demoralized the West becomes. Many women today wonder, where are the men? Why have they stopped protecting us? A major reason is JS covert military attacks have taken them out. It is important to understand that these kinds of attacks, even when done on a large scale, are extremely difficult to prove or even to notice. Alert readers, please use your brains. Think like a warrior to understand what is happening. Here’s an example of what they do — drug someone, usually a boy or young man; then inject a dose of pure ethanol into their forebrain. That is a chemical lobotomy. It takes just minutes to perform. We all know many women and men are raped after being drugged. The JS lobotomy attack is the same except for the details of what is done. As the West wastes away, somebody in power must understand this or we are doomed. And chemical lobotomy is but one of their many tactics. ABN
The highest court in Panama has nulled the ‘Chinese’ contract for the operation of both entrance ports on the Panama Canal. The Panamanian government took back control and assigned operations to APM Terminals, a subsidiary of the Danish group A.P. Moller-Maersk.
The state takeover comes after a 14-month long saga begun by President Trump who reasserted American interests in the hemisphere and rejected the concept of allowing China to have strategic control over such vital North American infrastructure.
Former Norwegian Prime Minister Thorbjørn Jagland, who also chaired the Norwegian Nobel Committee and served as Secretary General of the Council of Europe, was reportedly hospitalised following an alleged suicide attempt amid corruption charges linked to his connections with the late financier Jeffrey Epstein.
The development came days after Jagland was formally charged with aggravated corruption, which carries a potential 10-year prison term.
He has denied wrongdoing, describing his ties to Epstein as “unwise” or “poor judgement” and pledging full cooperation with the investigation.
Thorbjørn Jagland, former Norwegian Prime Minister and chair of the Norwegian Nobel Committee from 2009 to 2015, was directly involved in awarding Barack Obama the Nobel Peace Prize in 2009. As the committee’s chairman at the time, he oversaw the decision to grant the prize to Obama, a move that drew significant international attention and criticism due to Obama being less than nine months into his presidency and during ongoing wars in Afghanistan and Iraq.
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The West is dying because our general sense of right and wrong is far too abstract and out of touch with the extremely vast majority of human cultures in the world today and throughout history. I can respect people who kill themselves over personal moral issues. But it appears Jagland was remiss on the morality of global and national politics as well. He is emblematic of of the deep failure of Westerners to live up to their own ideals while also failing to protect their own people. Notice, Epstein trafficked and sexually abused zero Jewish victims. He was as low as they come, but still. First Noble Truth — the human realm is characterized by suffering which arises out of clinging to delusion. ABN
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