Or brains. Being wrong is not good but also common. Being wrong and also harsh about it is a deeper level of bad. All Buddhist practice falls into one or more of the following Three Trainings: 1) morality/ethics; 2) concentration/mindfulness; 3) wisdom. We all remember those days and the harshness of even some family members. Notice that the worst of them went against each of the Three Trainings, essentially going against every major focal point of Buddhism. Notice also how few of them have apologized. From top public figures to old friends, how many have said they were wrong and are sorry about it? I am not trying to be holier-than-thou. Just trying to point out a deep, pernicious aspect of what is happening in USA. ABN